Parents with young children and school children and age?
Does your child receive treatment or discplined different from saying that its 3, 4 or 5 years old? How do you react when older children are different discipline? Discpline try my children the same, but I think it is sometimes hard ... Any suggestions? I have a 5yo, 4yo and a 28 mo .. I usually take time out when things get out of hand .. I do not spank so please do not suggest spanking .. Thanks
I have a child of 10 years, one year 7 1 / 2 of age, a child of almost four years and a baby on the way! My 10 years old, is the only woman so far and I have to disipline very much at all, but when I do is put the computer or TV time removed ... or can not go home from a friend when she wants ... My July 1 / 2 years old and has ADHD so when she gets into trouble I do not use time-out because I really can not handle the wait time ... I will take privlegages gameboy, or write sentences about what he has done. Try also praise him when he does things right. My nearly 4 years old, have time to wait, as a punishment, but only for 4 minutes. Early work bedtime for all of them. I think they have to be delt with fairly and just, but the punishment should fit the child and age children. I explained to my children when the question arises of the consequences which are not always the same as a brother because what works for one may not work for all of them. In addition to the three years or more apart. But it's the same consequences as you got when you were that age! Another thing we do is allow the child choose the consequence, on some occasions. I used to provide day care services to my friends and most of our children the same age ... So that when he was only a few months to one year age difference came ..... similar penalties, but again, if five years enjoys painting and children 4 years old no, and say the punishment is to have a picture like that, so really only punish one of them. Also my 7 years old behavior specialist told me that such young as age 3 or 4 or 5, the child is more likely forgotten why they have been on time ... by the time the waiting time is over. By things like hitting ... the child should be separated from the others. For things like not shareing ... I take the toy or article of everyone involved in the conflict. For things like not take a nap, I left the child to establish, if the break is going to separate that child from the other, until the nap is over .... Try to be creative, find new forms of discipline that are specific to that child's likes and dislikes .... If it is something the child enjoys and does not want to lose, then they have more opportunities possitive results ... the child to refrain from negative behavior in the future ...
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