INFP's can you help me understand my INFP daughter ?
I can see from some posts that some of you out there do understand the type personalities. I am 56 ESTJ,now don't cringe I'm trying 
My daughter is 28, and when she was 25, got engaged and dumped me and I never knew she didnt like me. Extreme introvert her, extreme extrovert me. I have studied a lot and I have just let her "divorce me" even tho she doesn't say it that way, I just know it is hard for her to be with me but it breaks my mommy heart because I raised her as a single parent from when she was 6 and brother was 8. She saw her INFP dad all the time but I didn't know all this way back then. I want so much to at least have some type of relationship with her and we both love each other, but we are 16 personalities apart,the most complicated. ???I will change because I entertain extroverted thoughts ,but it appears it is almost impossible for her to entertain extroverted thoughts so we can become closer like counseling ????? Help and loving suggestions ?
You could just do as she asks you to do. Let her be for awhile. Love is eternal. Love will always endure. It is just the personality that is needing space. Allow this space for you and your daughter. Love is still there.
You will see, things will change. We cannot keep "working at relationships" all the time. Let relationships have space.
One does not keeping tending the garden every moment of every day. No we stand back and know that things can grow all by themselves.
|
|
Your Baby's First Year (Second Edition) $0.04 With more than 2,000,000 copies in print, here is state-of-the-art advice you can trust from the American Academy of Pediatrics, the organization that represents the nation’s finest pediatricians. The second edition of Your Baby’s First Year is the essential guide to all aspects of infant care. Here, in an easy-to-use format, you’ll find: • A month-to-month guide to your baby’s first yea... |